It is great when you understand who loves you, who hates you, who uses you, who makes you a slave, who adores you and who gives you an opportunity to develop. It’s great when you know it for sure. And it’s bad when you do not understand people around you, when you are roaming in the strange or hostile space.
I recommend religion. It will show you the way and give you the faith to distribute all the values. Look at the astrology. It is a real science. When you have at least basic knowledge of it you are able to save your time. You know beforehand the things people waste years (or even a whole life) to understand!